Wednesday, December 26, 2012

生命中時時刻刻的選擇 Life's choices in every moment

今天早晨墾丁香蕉灣的浪好大,一波接一波。很壯觀。對於今天想要浮潛的人,可能只好掃興而歸。生命就是這樣,如果你選擇愉悅的角度,就可以時時享受生命,如果你選擇不滿的角度,每一天都不合你意。在生命的每一個當下,你選擇什麼?

The waves are huge today at Banana Bay. What a magnificent view! However, If you want to snorkel today, you just might have to be very disappointed. What a metaphor for our everyday life?! If you choose a perspective that allow you to enjoy what Universe brings, your life is magnificent. If you choose to find dissatisfaction, that is very easy to do. Every day of your life can be miserable. And it is created by you, your internal world. So what perspectives do you choose in every moment?

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We all need good villain stories in our lives. But we don't have to be a victim in the story.

In our stories, there is always a person who treated us poorly for whatever reason we made them to be. We always somehow justify our slashing out behavior. We all tell ourselves that I am the good guy and they are the bad guy.  And then we became the villain of their story and begin to treat the other person as how we see they deserved it.  

This seems to be an endless cycle, in human perspectives. Is there a way out?  I think only in fairy tales.  In this plane of reality, or you may call it this plane of universe, there is no way out.  This the human illusion that we all agree to play in. 

The way out is, you find another level of parallel reality (parallel universe), that the Soul of the villain did you a favor. They are dark angles who helped you find your freedom, your power, your truth, or what may. This soul is the hero! This is a truth in another reality.  It does not co-exist in the same plane of reality with the villain story. 

In a villain story, you may feel betrayed, angry, resentful, sad, broken-hearted, hatred, dissatisfaction, worthlessness, all of these emotions put you way below calibration 200, in Map of Consciousness. David Hawkins' "Power Vs Force".

Your villain story is true, in some level, in your internal experience that is created by your internal world . Yet the hero story allows you to free yourself from your self created-agony, and place you at the 350 (acceptance) and above.  You would start to accept the fact, the villain in the story plays a different character, a secret hero, you gave them a different meaning (400) . Eventually, you find Gratitude, Joy (540) and Peace (600)... and you figured out why everything is the Universe's humorous perfection (600) after all. 

This is the the heaven and the hell that we can create for ourselves. 

You can not be in hell, feeling rage, vengeful, resentment, worthlessness and shame, and at the same time feeling Unconditional Love, Gratitude, Joy and Peace.

Your power does not come from anger, does not come from putting others down, does not come from attacking your villain.  You may feel a temporary rush of "high", because you just stepped up from a lower state of calibration.  ie, from fear (100) to anger (150) or from shame (20) to pride (175). 

This is where your real power is: To decide which story you want to fade out in your mind. 

When you get to the state of non-duality(600 all-being, perfect), you no longer see villain as villain. You no longer judge their behavior or your own.  You no longer have shoulds and shouldn'ts in your personal principles. You will still play the game of Human Reality. You still participate in the cycle of Law of Attraction. 

That is, you will still do things in response to Law of Attraction, others may judge your behavior as bad, as not spiritual, as poor taste.... because that is how they perceives your behavior, still from the duality state, from a judgmental mind.

You will be the only one who understand that this is how it is supposed to happen. And you will have to be OK with it, and not judge yourself for what you do. Even though you may look like a villain in many people's perspectives. They will always give you their opinions of how you should be and what you should do.  Your story and your behavior only triggered a process of their internal world, creating their own internal experience. 

There is a time that you will be confident and comfortable with the version of story you choose despite what others think and tell you. Your truth, your life, and your inner experience is your freedom to live and create. the question is, what are you feeling and where are you on the Map of Consciousness?! Do you enjoy how you feel? Are you satisfied with the calibration?

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每一個人的生命裏,都需要好的惡人故事來增加哦我們生命的色彩。但是我們不需要在這個故事裏扮演受害者。

在我們的故事里,總有一個人是對我們不好的。 我們在我們的內在世界,創造他的對我們不好的理由,然后我們找一個借口允許我們自己對待他們的行為。我們都告訴自己,我們是好人,他們是壞人。然后我們變成他們的『惡人故事』裏的惡人。

這好像是一個人類觀點裏沒有終點的循環。有出路嗎?或許只有在神話故事中吧!在這個層面的實相裏,你可以稱呼它是這個層面的(平行)宇宙,這是沒有出路的。這是靈魂同意參與的人類遊戲。

唯一的出路,是你在另一個平行宇宙里,看懂了這個惡人的靈魂其實是幫助了你。他們是幫助你找到自由,力量,真理,或是其他你當時所需要的感受的黑天使。這個靈魂是個英雄。  在這一個平行宇宙,這是的真理。 這個真理,是無法與惡人故事的平行宇宙共存的。

在惡人故事的平行宇宙,你可能覺得你被背叛,你很生氣,怨恨,傷心,痛心,恨意,不滿,覺得自己不值,以及許多意識地圖測試到為200以下的數據。

意識地圖 
– 王絪改寫自『心靈能量:藏在身體裏的大智慧』

神性觀點
生命觀點
等級

對數
情感
過程
大我
如是
開悟
ñ
700-1000
妙不可言
純粹意識
一切存在
完美
安詳
ñ
600
極樂
覺照光明
一體/合一
完整
喜悅
ñ
540
寧靜
變容顯光
慈愛的
良性的
ñ
500
天啟
有智慧的
有意義的
理性
ñ
400
了解
抽象
仁慈的
和諧的
接納
ñ
350
寬恕
超越
啟發性的
有希望的
願意
ñ
310
樂觀
意圖
使能夠
滿意的
中立
ñ
250
信任
釋放
允許的
可行的
勇氣
ô
200
肯定
賦能
冷漠
苛求的
驕傲
ò
175
鄙視
誇浮不實
想報復的
敵對的
憤怒
ò
150
仇恨
攻擊性
否認
失望的
欲望
ò
125
渴求
奴役
懲罰性的
驚恐的
恐懼
ò
100
焦慮
退縮
輕蔑的
悲劇的
悲傷
ò
75
懊悔
消沉
譴責的
無望的
毫無生氣
ò
50
絕望
放棄
懷恨的
邪惡
愧疚
ò
30
指責
破壞
鄙視的
悲慘的
羞恥
ò
20
恥辱
消滅


你的惡人故事在你的內在世界所創造的內在經驗裏是真實的。針對這個層面的平行宇宙來說。但是英雄的故事會讓你從自己所創造的苦惱裏釋放自己。他會讓你在心理找到接納(數據350)以上。你會開始接納現狀,你的惡人角色現在是一個新的秘密英雄。你給他不同的意義(400)。最後,你會找到感恩,愉悅(540),與寧靜(600)· · · 你終于搞懂了宇宙中所以的一切是極度的完美(600)。

這就是我們自己創造的天堂與地獄。

你不可能在自創的地獄里感受憤怒,報復的心態,怨恨,不值,與羞恥,同時去感受天堂的無條件的愛,感恩,愉悅,與寧靜。

你的力量不來自於憤怒,不來自於貶低他人,或是攻擊你故事裏的惡人。或許你這麼做的時候,你會感受到一種快感,但是這是因為你的意識(情緒)測試數據突然提高的原因。比如,你從恐懼(100),提升到憤怒(150)。或是從羞恥(20),提升到175 的驕傲。

你真正的力量來自于,你決定你要保留哪一個故事,淡化哪一個故事。

當你達到了非二元論的境界,(600,一切存在,完美)你不在把故事裏的惡人看成惡人。你也不再批判他們的行為,或是你自己的行為。你的個人原則里不再有所謂的『應該』與『不應該』。你還是要玩『人類現實』的遊戲,你還是參與吸引力法則的運作。

所以,你還是會根據吸引力法則來對待他人,或許你的行為會被他人評斷為不好,不夠靈性,或是格調不夠,但是這是來自於他們二元性的觀點,還是來自一個慣於批判人類意識。

只有你真正知道你內在的世界是怎麼創造你的內在經驗。也只有你知道,你與你故事裏的惡人/英雄應對的時候你的心態是什麼。最重要的是,你必須自己覺得容許自己做你想要做的自己,不批判自己的行為,即使你在別人的眼里可能看起來像一個惡人。別人一直會給你意見,認為你應該如何做,或不應該如何做。你的故事,與你的行為,只是反射他們所關注的議題,激起他們內在世界所創造的,他們自己的內在經驗。

有一天,你會對自已有足夠的信心,也對你所決定選取的故事感到放心滿意,無論別人想什麼,說什麼。你有自由選擇你要保留的那一個平行宇宙的事實與真理,你也有自由創造你的生命。

問題在,你內在的感受是什麼?這些感受在意識地圖上的數據是什麼?你對這個數據感到滿意嗎?你對你的感受感到滿意嗎?


2 comments:

  1. Sunny的文章總是那麼直指核心,這篇我要多看幾次!:)

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